Sunday, February 6, 2011

Getting Attention from Women

So I have written so much about attracting women and the seduction of them but what about attention from them. There is a primal instinct of everyone to get attention from another person. Either through friends or from of course the opposite sex but why do we need this in our life? How are we going to get more of this stuff? How are you going to get attention from the one you like?

If you look on the streets or even online like Face book and MySpace you will see it. People are different and you can see it everywhere but what makes them different? Attention is always an addiction that people must have good or bad attention, we have to have it! People are waves of consciousness that drive our cities and our countries. There is a reason why the most popular magazines are the ones with actors and models. We need the feeling that someone wants us or wants to be us but how? In today’s society we have so much diversity it is hard to get the attention we want but if you want the attention from women you will need to dissect what they are looking for:

  •  Women like strong men- Yes physical strong, muscle strong, but they also want a strong minded man. They need to know that they need to be protected however you take that. What I am meaning is that you need to show women that you can be adaptive to what society throws at you but how can you? Simple, it is called confidence; think about it for a second, if you look at for a second, try to fathom it, how did you feel when your parents were able to make decisions for your well being and how safe you felt? This is the same feeling but how do you show this without even talking to them?  You must hold your composure and act like you own the place that is how! You have to show when you walk and talk that you are the man of the year. Being that confident will show the women that you can take care of them very well.
  • Smile- Smiling is well profound sign of attraction but how? Think about it this way, how many times have you gotten a smile from a girl who looked at you when you were not smiling? Never, thinking and that is why this is a very useful thing to have. Showing a happy composure shows the woman that you are genuinely a happy person and which also shows confident in your life. Next time you are out trying holding a somewhat smile when out and about; see how many people actually respond to your attitude.
  • Be open- literally, body language is the pinnacle point of anyone’s subconscious thoughts. We all hold ourselves to physical communication but no one sees what is behind the curtain even though we respond to it. We all respond differently to it but in general we are visual people and seeing what a person does can show what type of person they are. Don’t cross your arms, fidget, bite your nails, look down, this is all signs of non- confident and people who are more of a beta male.

We must understand that if you want the attention of women you have to think about all aspects of your life and change accordingly. Making slight changes to your everyday life can and will change the way everyone perceives you as well.

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