She was sitting there as beautiful as possible and glances up to see what attention she was getting. She looks right at you and gives smile as if she was waiting for you the whole time but you freeze and your palms get sweaty. The nervousness gets to you as if you were paralyzed from the brain down, not knowing you walk away and leave her wondering why you could not talk to her.
This happens every second of the day for many men and some women as well. The possibility of getting the beautiful girl in the room is there you just have to take the chance but how? This is a subject on what people don’t know how to do and many don’t even notice that it is a problem. You have to understand that being physically attractive has only a little to do with the attraction from women. In many polls where women judged men based on just the physical appearance most of them were very vague on what they found attractive and most of them was just about symmetry. Being able to understand this makes an instant connection towards why you sometimes see hot chicks with mediocre dudes right?
Being physically attractive does have an advantage over the competition but you still need the other four aspects to really seduce and keep her attraction:
· Gain her trust quickly! - She is human and having human characteristic they also are afraid of new people like you are. She needs to know that you are not going to be a danger. So instead of going up to her and be straight act like you were going somewhere else but had to have a question answered. This shows your intent is not sexually and will open up to you!
· Escalating attraction- So now you have her attention, you seem interesting and worth talking to but what do you do now? Most beautiful women think they are on a special level where you can be no part of. Put the ball on level playing fields by knowing you are as good /or better than her by calling her out on her own BS. You do this is to act confident and joke with her by stating something about her that is original and different without offending her but making her feel like a regular person. Don’t use “just kidding”, being firm on the comment or joke shows you are confident to be a mate for her.
· Closeness – So now she is ready for the next step right? Being confident and being able to be closer to her without her being afraid of you is in your grasp’s. How do you accomplish this and how do we accomplish this? Move in closer to her proximity and allow yourself to direct what you guys do. Being a confident person in being able to show them a good night and she does not have to worry about what they are going to do reduces stress and raises her other hormones if you know what I mean. Use somewhat of a touch but non sexual like grabbing her hand and leading her around or touching an arm or moving her hair around if it out of place. This is more like a test, if she allows you to do this then she is more interested in being more than friends.
· Don’t be too submissive or needy- What I mean by this is don’t allow your emotions get the best of you. Over complimenting her or asking question after question like an interview shows you are not the assertive man they need. Be cool about it and allow her to talk about herself freely. Don’t compliment but comment on certain things you notice that no one else will. Allowing your emotions to get the best of you may be the worse thing that you can do, play it cool when she does not reply to a question or not giving you the attention you think you should be getting. Doubting yourself is also a big turn off, If she does not like something you said just mention that most people would find it funny.
These are proven based on my own interactions with women. You see the best way to find out if these accusations are try is to try it yourself. Being attractive is only an advantage but you have to understand everyone is interesting in their own way and because of that notion you can be the interesting person she just does not know yet.
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