Seducing the Mind ( get any women you want) Part 1 of 3

Intriguing as you might think that the stare or being flirtatious may come to you as women being interested in you, also would probably like to know that you need to intrigue the mind. Many people that I have met that I would say are not that attractive but seem to be very interesting when you talk and converse with them. Staying engaged at the simple topics they bring up and how they keep your interests. Being socially accepted by talking and creating a social environment it also is an attraction method when it comes to the opposite sex. Being able to become social puts you on the ladder of more of a Alpha as you will and the over abundance of social essence you can control. When most people tell you that you can have a beautiful woman they really do mean it.

Now with the title and what I just said I probably have your attention and not just the attention of reading but the want of knowing knowledge. The thrust of guiding someone into greatness through impressive wording and knowing the secrets. Well I am here to tell you that there is certain ways of seducing the mind of a woman and creating an utter abundance of attraction through word. It is shown that mean are perceiver of the physical realm while women also are but they also see the emotional tie or even biological tie. Women are of course different then men and so we must understand the full attraction of women where they think differently then we do.

Capability of achieving social and economic status in a way also shows another side of seduction not told to you we are not going to talk about being rich, this is for the every day gentleman who just wants to find someone who they may be physically attracted to and just doesn’t know how to or what way in which to talk to her and get to know them better. Utilizing that amazing words that come out of your mouth is a start and you haven’t even begun to understand the power of confidence, persuasion, and motivation that one person can use to of course attract the opposite sex. We are now in the third paragraph and I still haven’t touched base on what you could do to get her to notice you.

The power of your social class has a big part to do with what women find sexy and you only know this when you see it. High school of course is a great example of the attraction law and thought process on one’s opportunity to get the girl or vice versa. The QB getting the captain of the cheerleader, band geeks having crazy sex with each other ( in my school they were that way!). In this example it shows the social status is always going to be what is expected but when you are out and about with friends lets say the bar, She does not know who you are!!!!!! Let me say that again, she does not know who you are!!!! Don’t be a dummy when that was just brought to your attention. This means that you have a fresh start to show that you are the social elite status to her encumbering eyes.

This is what you need to do and this can work not only for your love life but to build friendships or your career. You use the power to lead conversation, to take control of a group and get them interested in a story or a theory that you have and how you do that is to first feel confident in controlling the group. Then when you know what to say you say it loud enough without shouting and deep enough so everyone knows the tone of the story, draw them in. Make the conversation open ended and be social as if you are running the show. Shake hands and use lots of touch, flirtatious with the girls and buddy manly touch with the guys (high fives etc.). Now when I started using this method I instantly had a girl who was gorgeous walk up to the group and in the middle of the group tell me and of course I have repeated this story numerous times:

“ Hey I don’t normally do this but I was wondering if you could take down my phone number?”

 And this is where I developed a theory because I was the center of attention because of the joke I told. The theory has been tried and tried and will work in most cases based on the completion and energy of the group and the reason why I tell you this was not only for the attraction of social status but because of energy we give off. We as human beings give off energy and if you notice it is positive or negative but others can feel it. You know when someone is happy or sad just by being by them and so part 1 of seducing the mind is just that. You get a big crowd of happy people that you are entertaining others cant help to be attracted to it!

Of course you are wanting more and if you wait next week their will be seducing the body !

Divine Right!! Guide to getting what you want

Needing to have physical things throughout our day we tend forget on what is really what we are all here for and that is better our lives through creating the “divine right”. What is Divine right you ask? It is something I would to call creating a god like structure through respecting your mind, body and spirit. I don’t believe we can ever be perfect but think about the leaders of our world work. They are motivated by creating something that is there own as like God. They do this so meticulous, creative but they concentrate on everything that is what they create. I believe God is not a man in the sky looking after us but a higher power that motivates our body to be better everyday. A higher power that gives you tools to become better than yourself. When they say to accept Jesus in your heart, I think they got it wrong. I think Jesus was trying to explain to accept his teachings and him so you can live the lifestyle for an overall better positive life. The bible is a guide in which if we adopt the lifestyle it is to help us become a better person overall.

Now I don’t mean if you are not religious this is not for you. This concept is nothing new but it is something I am trying to adopt in my everyday routine. To do things with passion and strive to be self disciplined in my endeavors and to do things meticulously so it is done right. To be successful is to succeed at your failures, don’t give up on the things you do if they are hard. Push through the pain and it will be so much better than giving up early. If you do fail do it with pride knowing you did try your best, you will be a winner.

Divine right is a god like structured life that you try to live by. To know that you are positive and do things to the best of your ability while concentrating, that is divine right!!

Motivation…

So how do you become successful?  The word is a very strong word when you look at it. SUCCESS! Think about for a couple of seconds and think about what it takes to be successful and what you deem success. Money, cars or is it career, personal feats, and relationships. It took me two and a half years to figure out what I wanted, what I needed to be happy. It wasn’t girls, money and assets; it was being happy at my goals and attaining what I wanted in my life. I read through my past posts and I think that I have grown from the first part of my impatient theories and lectures on becoming this ultimate male. The reason why is because I was still waking up every morning unhappy even though I had a great night or going to work where I don’t feel adequate enough or happy to be there. So it is time to create goals and happiness in my life. I choose to be happy, I choose to win. No one else can give me the go ahead; no one else can tell me it’s my time. The only one that can tell me is me and that is all I need to motivate myself. All I need is to have the positive outlook on my goals.  What I need is me and to get up when life hits me and keeps beating me down, I will get back up and I will prevail, I will get up every morning and be as productive as I can be and to show my son that you have to work hard to get what you want. Looking for instant gratification is what we all look for when it comes to a dream, but how do you define Success. My definition is standing after every one else has fled, to lead when all others have already quit, to fight when others are knocked out. I will continue to breath and conquer when others have loss sight of the finish line. To continue to fight even though I was already knocked out, to show I am not weak but strong. It’s my time; it’s my time to show everyone they were wrong that they told lies about what I could have done in this life. I will show that I can succeed, I can do this. I am not saying that I will not fail and not fall, but what I am saying is I will get back up and continue to push to shove to drag to crawl to bleed. I will continue to get up and get up until I die, until my last breath and drop of blood has exploded out of me!!

Do what you love!

So now that I have recently let my stress go and Just started to do the things Ive always wanted to try. Climbing mountains, getting ripped and training for a marathon I noticed that I started to develop a personality that was my own. As I continue to write down the goals that I want to accomplish I understand why we have men who are considered these alpha males. They own their own lives and I see this in there eyes and when I started to go out for the first time I saw the response that others had when in company with these men.

I had to know how and why these people are so dang entertaining/ attractive/mysterious. As I start to do some research there is a lot of the same answers between different people and styles. I can guarantee right now I fill the same way and it fills amazing. I am not rich and  I am not tall But I am fit and I own my own life. That was one thing I was missing, whenever I would talk to someone I would hesitate when I told them I am going through a divorce and have a kid because I thought they would think differently of me.

Own your life because it is who you are!! The difference between you and that alpha male is that they own their lives. They tell you the good and bad of their lives but know that they have learned from their experiences. So to get out and do things and to create your own personality you need to try to do things you’ve always wanted to do!

Positive Awareness!!

As I stand in the outskirts of the bar looking around I notice the cliques and people that are enjoying each other. As I look around I see beautiful women all over the place and the glances that they are giving me. I start to have a giant smile having loads of confidence I tend to relax a tad in my plaid shorts as I feel at ease with all of the surroundings. Even if the girls were not staring at me directly or just glancing for their attention I still felt as if the energy that I felt created a positive awareness!! This was giving me a natural high as I have not felt this in awhile; can we use this for our own advantage to have the confidence? That night I felt as if I was ten feet in the air even though I was only a tiny 5’ 7”.

So this is something I use in generality to create a positive outlook on myself. I believe that women in general use glances to create a self persona on what they think people think of them. I also use this towards my advantage because it creates awareness that I am good enough for the opposite sex. I don’t think, I know that I could be in basic knowledge that the women here I can have but just don’t have the balls to talk to them. I warm up by allowing the energy of sensuality envolope me as if I was reaping natural energy from a known source. It’s all in the head; you create a fear of the outcomes of what you do and the scenarios that can develop from it. One thing I know is the answer is no if you don't ask, taking chances is all you have.

Creating a positive awareness about yourself can almost guarantee a better night for you and possibly your friends. You see even though we don’t know this we give off energy non-verbally but by looks and glances, try to realize it next time someone gives you a look and remember how you feel. The thought patterns that you create is from another source which you can presume has to be energy. What I try to teach is to envelope a thought pattern to use in the process’s in which you can utilize as a tool instead of resorting to the alternate which is alcohol where you cannot have the ability to communicate with the opposite sex.

I am a Realist…

Thinking back at my life I never would have thought I would be here! In a place where I have so many decisions to make and it will not only affect me but everyone around me. I continue to drum the fingers on the table as I think of the words to come to mind and putting it down on paper. The words correlating with one another as if they were smeared on there like peanut butter, words looking more like pictures. I continue to get mental fatigue, running out of words and even breathe saying them over and over.

Allowing yourself to make decisions finally!!

What is capitalism in America? Being a realist I always have to wonder about what America is doing right that the rest of the world is doing wrong. I take a look at the McDonald commercials on T.V. broadcasting to my Child knowing that it would destroy him one day. The toy is intriguing to him as he taps me in the arm asking me to get him this great toy that cost them a penny to make but I will be paying 3.99 for it. Soon his diet will be the dollar cheeseburger in which costs twice as much as me making a meal for him at home. I shake my head at the one’s that allow this to be the staple of America, allowing TV to babysit the kids and fast food to be the nightly dinners. I take a look at our educational system as it teaches our children to try for a better “Job” instead of creating jobs. We look at our fascist country as the rich get richer and of course the poor get poorer.

Common Sense is a term used for people to use in the obvious; it is something we have all had to deal with having epiphanies of what is! The use of many terms in which facts is staring you in the face but you tend to erase what you know and replace with the norm. It may not be your fault but what society is telling you what the norm is. What you have to understand there is no norm but the differences between people is what connects us to one another. It is what intrigues us all to the brink of discovery but you my friend have to understand its corruptible capabilities.

Opening your eyes to what you already have seen but have not fixed the habit is something we all have to change. A behavioral characteristic is something we all develop through our time on this world, our mind is a sponge and adaptability is what keeps us alive. Learning from parents and kids at school is all you have come upon in what you know is your personality and you think you were born with it. The understanding of oneself is to know what you are capable of and changing yourself into what you want to be and what you want your children to model after. I have experienced many failures in my life and have openly admitted defeats but it was I to blame for all the wretched indiscretions that I have opposed on to others.

I look out into the world and I still find myself repeating the mistakes that I have failed to fix before but as I notice my behavioral characteristics I have found myself beating myself up again. I started the life change 2 years prior to this date and what I’ve learned is no one should accept who they are if they are not happy with themselves. We must thrive on what is reality and what I believe is that we as people must overcome our own obstacles in life and make better decisions. Logics over emotions can be a gateway to a better life and understanding this concept was something I had to learn the hard way. I was married before this and being married to women that continually used manipulation against me was something I hadn’t experienced and being Naive I went with it till one day I woke up and was not happy.

My journey has always started their and realized I had a lot of growing up to do not only for my son but for myself and allowing this to continue I needed to show him I was strong for him. I continually allow my self to grow mentally and physically to understanding the universe in my own sense and to allow others to direct me to answers I have not found. Remember when you are done learning is when you begin teaching. Allow yourself to experience all of what life has to offer! Using common sense to rule out bad decisions and the pressures of society can bring you good as long as you make the decision for a better you!

Product of your environment “subjective”

Sitting there with a six dollar Latte, thinking to myself while I was people watching “Why do people do what they do”? It makes no sense to me that your soul, your whole embodiment of what makes you who you are may be a little skewed. Looking around people has a habit they pick up when they are really little as toddlers and gradually it becomes a thought they start to grow from it. I was thinking about it, what could have caused the way I think? What triggered my thought process in which I try to utilize biological advances to use towards my struggles in being a man my son can look up to?

The art of openness “objective”

As I ordered a drink at my favorite “hole in the wall” I look at my friends all having a good time except for one. Josh is a good guy and he seems like he has good intent but he looks sad enough to be on a Hallmark card. A great guy indeed just got a raise at his accounting job and he has a great place where any bachelor would love to have. I was wondering why none of the women he was talking to would not give him the time of day. Pulling Josh over to my side of the room I tell him that I would like to be his “Wingman”. Overly excited he was happy that someone was going to help him out with the girls that were giving no responses.

Social Objectiveness

Walking into the bar I was wondering around when I saw a gentleman with a group of people and was wondering why he was so important. He was not a movie star nor was he anyone I would think exceptionally interesting just looking at him. I had to know more about this so of course if I don’t know how it works I try to find out. So when he had to stop to go to the bar to get another drink I had to make a move to ask why he had almost a quarter of the bar in the palm of his hands.

I approached the middle aged man as If he was a teacher and I was an eager student to learn. “ Hey can I ask you a question” I said in a shaky voice. Smiling at me a with a weird grin he stated “sure”.  “I noticed that all of those people over there were giving all of their attention to you, do you know all of those people?” He grinned a pretty big grin and smiled stating “I am just interesting to talk to, I make myself open for opinions and I try to get to know everyone I can by remembering the name and something about them”. Okay as I walked away thinking maybe I can use this to my advantage.

Very simple when you think about it right? Basic thought process and simple playground theory on how to make friends but how do we use this to get the women to melt out of your hands? This was something I had to look into with knowing that attention is something that women like to have and give it to someone who has greater social value than her. See as much as I knew than was that you yourself is a very interesting person, everyone is very interesting and all you have to do is get past the first initial ice breaker. Lets look at this in depth just a little bit further and concentrate on the social value part.

Social Value is what Pick up artists use to attract women utilizing the value of their social skills to dominate the conversation having the object of their desire be submissive which will entitle the Pick up artists basically dominate her emotions as well. This is great and all but what if you can get multiple women attracted to you without even talking to them directly? How can we as men use each other to get all the women at the bar to be infused on trying to get our attention? I had an Idea but just had to test it out.

So after doing the research I decided to take it to the streets and try it at the local bar.  Sitting down at the bar where you had a clear view of everyone in the room I started in on the bartender. And I will review my notes with you to show you its all mathematical engineered to work as long as you do not get emotional.  Remember these points also when you do start to talk to the women you want as well.

• So placement is key in this game of cat and mouse, and we already went how you need to show Alpha male characterstics. Remember this process will evaluate your social value and aspects on making new friends and creating an attraction from women.

• So lets hit the basics on making people feel important.

1. know their name- simple but not so simple, how many times did you forget someone’s name. When they say their name, take some time to remember it and repeat it back to them, it actually shows a better social value.
2. Know something personal about them- this is a great thing to remember when wanting to make a bigger impression on the people you want to make your friends. It shows openness and wanting to be personal at the same time.
3. use body language- Don’t show a passive person this shows that you are not confident and it will not be good in the end and even lowering or even dismissing your social value.
4. Smile and ask open ended questions and really be involved in conversations, don’t act like it!!

• The bartender is the first piece of the puzzle. They are your friend but making them a better friend will take time and a little more dough if you want a good outcome. Tip very well and get to know their name and they will help you with what you came there for IE women.
• Make yourself the center of attention- now you know all of the players you need to know the game, be the center of attention of a group and make everyone involved, use dominant body language but also be open to everyone else. Be in the middle so everyone can talk to you and you can point them out when addressing them. If you have never been a mediator what you need to do is have a comment on everything someone says, use a real comment and always make it positive. Now you have successfully raised social value and your confidence.
• Use this to your advantage- look at the women around you after about 10 – 15 minutes, they should be fixated on you and your every move, don’t screw it up. Use this to your advantage, invite them into the conversation and if you don’t know if they are attracted look at the body language:

1. playfulness- playing with the hair or any part of clothing,
2. the look- yes of course if she stares then don’t be a wimp
3. knees and feet- look at them if any pointing in your direction and she glances to see then like I said don’t be a wimp
4. overly moving, exemplifying action- this is very key, moving slower, slurping down the drink slowly, flinging hair back, being fidgety, these are things to remember.

• Remembering your value- don’t put her on a pedestal when opening up with her, remember you just had a bunch of people eating out of your hands and to put her above you decreases your value fast. Use somewhat of a negative comment and intend to be funny like “ you have broad shoulders for a women” or “you have only one dimple when you smile, its odd but cute”

When doing this task it will increase your confidence not only with women but people in general. Having this type of quality you can use not only in just attracting women but your worth at your job or with your current friends. Remembering that this is and can be used very versatile will help you control your intentions and emotions as well.

Spring Fever!!

It is upon us the spring has hit and now all I see is dresses and skirts. Get excited over this because this is the time of love, pools, BBQ’s and patios. Well if you are not excited that means you are not truly ready and need a little bit of encouragement. Maybe you need to adjust your look, work out, or change your wardrobe. Let’s look at this in perspective if you have not been excited about the spring that means you truly have not enjoyed the true feeling of warmer weather as a single male dude on the hunt for the ultimate feeling. With low self esteem and decreasing male libido means only one thing: you need to change up your game and experience.

I love spring because of the women and the more things you can do. Skin and warm weather is just exciting to me but let’s look at a couple of things to do if your game is not cutting it:

• Weight- well now that the winter is done that means you can lose the extra five to ten pounds you put on in hibernation.
• Run for at least 30-45 minutes every other day
• Change up your diet to have high protein and low carbohydrates; also you do need to do some calorie counting. Try this link http://health.drgily.com/basal-metabolic-rate-calculator.php and remember that the more calories you burn and the less intake = weight loss
• Muscle resistance is always my favorite but always use your brain on this one. You need to have a plan on what you do and try not to overwork your muscles. EX:  5 minute warm up, 30 minute muscle group (chest, back, shoulders, or legs) 15 minutes secondary muscles (Triceps, Biceps, or core) then do 10-15 minutes if cardio. Take it from this guy http://fitnesslk.blogspot.com/
• Resist temptations-remember that food is a necessity not a privilege. What this means is that you don’t have to eat at McDonald’s so think healthy.
• Change up wardrobe- This is very essential if you are still wearing the same gear from winter. You will need to put away the sweaters and break out the shorts and plaid shoes. T-shirts that will accentuate the newly developed muscles, perhaps a v-neck.
• Get some color- I am not saying go to the tanning bed every day but you need to maybe go outside and get the skin a little refreshed with the UV rays that also give out Vitamin- D. Remember to much of something is bad for you and most things are good in moderation.
• Enjoy the outdoors- get outside and do something like hiking, rock climbing or something that will get your blood pumping.
• Enjoy a patio- there is nothing better than just sitting outside on your own, a buddies or a bar patio but enjoy it because it feels so good to enjoy some suds in warm weather.
• Be single- now this is only for the single dudes but enjoy the women in your life and if you don’t have some get some. Read my other blogs on how to meet women and just get out there because I love the skin and you should to.

So now that we have discussed what to do for the spring we need to boldly go where you have not done before. No holding back and be strong on your values, don’t party too hard and enjoy other things besides just the bar and booze. Enjoy life as it brings fullness and new things to your life.

Money, Women, Sex (I love it)

So lately I have been just thinking about it because the spring is upon us and I can’t get it out of my mind. What am I going to do for the summer because I have an Itch I will always scratch it. You may call me vain or addicted to myself but I don’t care because I don’t spend 5 days 2 hours a day to look like a slob. I love the summer for three things: Women, Money, partying. That is why I am so driven but why am I this way? I believe everyone has this feeling and would love to have fun at it. I say scratch it fella’s, love being you and let everyone know it.

Time for a new wardrobe

Unfortunately I have grown in size from last year so now I need larger shirts (which are good and bad because I am bigger but it hurts the pocket book somewhat). I think the V-neck is going to be shirt of choice even though the Polo’s show off your tone, the v-neck is something that will show off your neck and traps. I am also going to try to find what is called Boat shoes (recently told by a girl I hooked up with) I have one pair but I like the attention enough I may buy more with nice shorts.

Summer ABS

I have not had Abs to show off but this year I don’t think the shirt is going to stay on. If you did not notice I love the attention from this and I don’t think the women mind it neither. I have shredded about 6 pounds of fat and wanting to do about 4 more before I go to Vegas and yes I will have pictures for all of you. I think this is going to be an Epic year for me.

Getting money for teaching men to get women

Started to show other men about the power of confidence and the key ingredients to do it right which of course helps the pocket book a little bit but in turn I am helping men better themselves. I mean what is better than helping other men achieving goals and getting paid to do so. I love my life but I do need to state it was hard for me to reach this as well. It was a hard transition but I do appreciate all the people that have helped me.

In turn I may be a little Vain and so what I love to better myself everyday and that is why I teach it. Bettering yourself everyday is something you have to do to make yourself better as a person and to make your life better as well.

Being Attractive can only go so far when seducing women!

She was sitting there as beautiful as possible and glances up to see what attention she was getting. She looks right at you and gives smile as if she was waiting for you the whole time but you freeze and your palms get sweaty. The nervousness gets to you as if you were paralyzed from the brain down, not knowing you walk away and leave her wondering why you could not talk to her.