Social Objectiveness

Walking into the bar I was wondering around when I saw a gentleman with a group of people and was wondering why he was so important. He was not a movie star nor was he anyone I would think exceptionally interesting just looking at him. I had to know more about this so of course if I don’t know how it works I try to find out. So when he had to stop to go to the bar to get another drink I had to make a move to ask why he had almost a quarter of the bar in the palm of his hands.

I approached the middle aged man as If he was a teacher and I was an eager student to learn. “ Hey can I ask you a question” I said in a shaky voice. Smiling at me a with a weird grin he stated “sure”.  “I noticed that all of those people over there were giving all of their attention to you, do you know all of those people?” He grinned a pretty big grin and smiled stating “I am just interesting to talk to, I make myself open for opinions and I try to get to know everyone I can by remembering the name and something about them”. Okay as I walked away thinking maybe I can use this to my advantage.

Very simple when you think about it right? Basic thought process and simple playground theory on how to make friends but how do we use this to get the women to melt out of your hands? This was something I had to look into with knowing that attention is something that women like to have and give it to someone who has greater social value than her. See as much as I knew than was that you yourself is a very interesting person, everyone is very interesting and all you have to do is get past the first initial ice breaker. Lets look at this in depth just a little bit further and concentrate on the social value part.

Social Value is what Pick up artists use to attract women utilizing the value of their social skills to dominate the conversation having the object of their desire be submissive which will entitle the Pick up artists basically dominate her emotions as well. This is great and all but what if you can get multiple women attracted to you without even talking to them directly? How can we as men use each other to get all the women at the bar to be infused on trying to get our attention? I had an Idea but just had to test it out.

So after doing the research I decided to take it to the streets and try it at the local bar.  Sitting down at the bar where you had a clear view of everyone in the room I started in on the bartender. And I will review my notes with you to show you its all mathematical engineered to work as long as you do not get emotional.  Remember these points also when you do start to talk to the women you want as well.

• So placement is key in this game of cat and mouse, and we already went how you need to show Alpha male characterstics. Remember this process will evaluate your social value and aspects on making new friends and creating an attraction from women.

• So lets hit the basics on making people feel important.

1. know their name- simple but not so simple, how many times did you forget someone’s name. When they say their name, take some time to remember it and repeat it back to them, it actually shows a better social value.
2. Know something personal about them- this is a great thing to remember when wanting to make a bigger impression on the people you want to make your friends. It shows openness and wanting to be personal at the same time.
3. use body language- Don’t show a passive person this shows that you are not confident and it will not be good in the end and even lowering or even dismissing your social value.
4. Smile and ask open ended questions and really be involved in conversations, don’t act like it!!

• The bartender is the first piece of the puzzle. They are your friend but making them a better friend will take time and a little more dough if you want a good outcome. Tip very well and get to know their name and they will help you with what you came there for IE women.
• Make yourself the center of attention- now you know all of the players you need to know the game, be the center of attention of a group and make everyone involved, use dominant body language but also be open to everyone else. Be in the middle so everyone can talk to you and you can point them out when addressing them. If you have never been a mediator what you need to do is have a comment on everything someone says, use a real comment and always make it positive. Now you have successfully raised social value and your confidence.
• Use this to your advantage- look at the women around you after about 10 – 15 minutes, they should be fixated on you and your every move, don’t screw it up. Use this to your advantage, invite them into the conversation and if you don’t know if they are attracted look at the body language:

1. playfulness- playing with the hair or any part of clothing,
2. the look- yes of course if she stares then don’t be a wimp
3. knees and feet- look at them if any pointing in your direction and she glances to see then like I said don’t be a wimp
4. overly moving, exemplifying action- this is very key, moving slower, slurping down the drink slowly, flinging hair back, being fidgety, these are things to remember.

• Remembering your value- don’t put her on a pedestal when opening up with her, remember you just had a bunch of people eating out of your hands and to put her above you decreases your value fast. Use somewhat of a negative comment and intend to be funny like “ you have broad shoulders for a women” or “you have only one dimple when you smile, its odd but cute”

When doing this task it will increase your confidence not only with women but people in general. Having this type of quality you can use not only in just attracting women but your worth at your job or with your current friends. Remembering that this is and can be used very versatile will help you control your intentions and emotions as well.