Getting HOT SEXY women with Personal Value!!

As I walked into the bar with my buds, I looked around to see who is staring back at me. I looked around feeling so confident because I just got a new haircut, whitened my teeth and now down to 10% body fat. I start to walk through the bar and already a girl start to pull on my shirt asking me what my name was. Through the whole night I continue to get the response from many women throughout the night as I start to develop a self esteem that is unparalleled that I had before. Thinking about it, reading documents on how any man can seduce a woman I look at the article and disagree. Even though the techniques would work on some women, I think the women that put hours upon hours in the gym and pay a butt load of money to do their hair want a man that put the same importance in themselves as their partners.

I like the way I feel when I workout and I like the attention that the opposite sex gives me when I am out and about. I will refer back to social value and the confident level that you can create when of course you take care of yourself physically. It also will create a mental atmosphere where you can maneuver and start to be apart of the social scene. Like I said time and time again you don’t have to be in great shape but to tell you the truth if you want a hot, sexy women that you know goes to the gym you may need to hit the weights and lose weight. Just like a car you need to take care of it so it looks nice and new right? Same concept, a women will not want an overweight man that has lost teeth and hair because they don’t take care of themselves, you must understand that physicality is apart of the relationship too. So that said she is going want the value of a man to be at her level or above.

Now there is many questions you have on how to change yourself, and it took me about 2 years to realize this. I have been in the shadows of my friends for awhile and I just thought it was the way life is but didn’t accept that. I started to do research and found that you must adopt a new lifestyle, a new pattern of thinking if you wanted to change your life. I was a passive aggressive and now I am assertive, I was overweight and out of shape and now I run ten miles every other day. It’s a thought process and how to develop the thought of changing your new life, don’t accept it, change now for a better healthier you!!

Do what you love!

So now that I have recently let my stress go and Just started to do the things Ive always wanted to try. Climbing mountains, getting ripped and training for a marathon I noticed that I started to develop a personality that was my own. As I continue to write down the goals that I want to accomplish I understand why we have men who are considered these alpha males. They own their own lives and I see this in there eyes and when I started to go out for the first time I saw the response that others had when in company with these men.

I had to know how and why these people are so dang entertaining/ attractive/mysterious. As I start to do some research there is a lot of the same answers between different people and styles. I can guarantee right now I fill the same way and it fills amazing. I am not rich and  I am not tall But I am fit and I own my own life. That was one thing I was missing, whenever I would talk to someone I would hesitate when I told them I am going through a divorce and have a kid because I thought they would think differently of me.

Own your life because it is who you are!! The difference between you and that alpha male is that they own their lives. They tell you the good and bad of their lives but know that they have learned from their experiences. So to get out and do things and to create your own personality you need to try to do things you’ve always wanted to do!

Make better choices!! for a better life

As I look out at the vast mountain range of the “Keyhole” with the 50 MPH wind hitting my face like a sand blaster, my stomach drops. Looking down, I see a rocky ridge 2000 feet down with a straight drop and to the left was the path up the massive mountain which I was almost there. I stepped back for a moment looked at the people I was with and saw that they were not going to do it. I started back down the boulder field and thought to myself I was almost there what am I scared of?  The drop?  The wind? Yeah I was scared but we are always scared of everything and this separates us from the ones who “can” and the “cants”. I start to tighten up my backpack and tie my shoes “Hey, I am going to do it!” my friends turn around and look at me like I was crazy. I told them it may take me some time but I will be back! I start to ascend back to the entrance of the backside of the mountain, the wind blowing in my face my stomach again starts to drop again as I climb over the giant boulders.

Embrace being Single!

As the anxiety rises through my head wondering what I did to make her run, I sit back and analyze everything. The feeling of emotions of inadequacy roles over me as I descend to pits of depression. Trying to feel happy but cant put the smile on my face. The feeling of being alone is an upmost horrible feeling at first but as I stare at the phone and realize she is not going to send a text back to a witty thing I said. I am single and a master of my own domain, no one to tell me what to do or say. I realize that I may not be ready for a relationship but trying to rush into one because I am afraid of being alone. I have always done that jumping from one to another thinking it was a good idea. Figured out that it was always a bad idea because I haven’t experienced being alone truly and I think that is why it scares me.

            The thought of the unknown is a scary thought and I wasn’t wanting to feel this way. Everything was good until we did the deed and then it changes the emotions between us both, the scary thought of finding someone was also a happy thought that I could not erase I knew I started to rush into quickly. I tend to do that a lot and then see the fleeing of women that I have seen all to much. Ive always been a relationship type of guy but have not embellished the single life. I think it is time to start understanding that I can be happy with myself and be alone.

            First things first, I need to reinvent my values as a person. There is a reason why I have failed relationships and that is because I myself has no core values, I use their values to create my own perception therefore I am reliant own the relationship to define my thoughts and feelings. How I am going to do that is to create the perception that I am in control in what I want and what I do. Self control shows many people who they really are in life and creation of life as they know it. I tend to fall in the category where I will follow everyone else’s vision in what I am supposed to be. I am my own person and that speaks a lot for many people who don’t know who they are and what they are capable of. Creating self control not only will help me develop values but create a confidence that is long lasting in being a person who can get about anything they want in life. I must commit to the new me and say goodbye the irresponsible me, I must push forward in life to a degree of irreversible threat. I need this as if it is my sanction my undeniable right as an individual. I must finally decided to accomplish my goals and create a feeling of self worth so the women that I want will want what I share as a value. Its time to do it!!

Love Yourself

As I stare waitingly into the cold black screen, I have anxiety on the unexplained. The call or even text that I have waited for sometime just will not come. Having the urge to make the attempt to call I back up for a minute and excuse myself. “I shouldn’t be feeling this way, I should be out and about but I am not”. Sitting in my bedroom just pondering and wanting it to give me some sound that I have been yourning for. With all of the people and women that I have met why is this one bothering me? Why cant I just let go and just move on somehow?

            Wondering for several days I walked down the street remembering of the homework assignment I had to complete in English, I started to stress about that as well. The assignment was to write about a travelling experience I had that taught me a lesson and to write as a narrative. I started out as talking about the whole thing of me in Lake Powell and doing all of the crazy things that we did. One thing that stuck in my mind was the “cliff Jump” this was one of my most memorable moments in my life that I could remember. As I start to write about it I realized that was the only time I was single and happy to not have to worry about what another person is doing.

            As I continue to ponder the reasoning and writing the story my dialogue comes to life as if the words was trying to say something to me. I stop and thought real hard on why I feel that I always have to have a female around me. “I don’t know my limits, I don’t even know how to do anything”. The thought processes through my head like a nail gun putting together the foundation of a wall. I need to start fulfilling my life with other things than the attention of the opposite sex. I cant operate without knowing of a women that cares or at least is thinking of me. So how do I start? What am I going to do to rid myself of the all to commonality of most men and why we fail with relationships.

           

            The all to common “jumping from one to the other” and why we associate this to being happy. I am going to work with this one as somewhat of a starter because I myself has fallen victim to a lot of the term usage of my own life and why I do this. I have always been in a relationship and enjoyed them but for one I time in my life I have not truly enjoyed myself in being single. So here is a few things I am going to point at when trying this new thing:

• Make a list “Bucket List”- Try new things or reinvent old things  but make a list in the stuff you have always wanted to try and do it alone. You don’t need friends for this one try to do this one and you should be trying to make new friends.
• Get fit- Now I am always saying this because I enjoy being healthy but try to enjoy wherever you are.
• Help your community- Try to sign up to help fix the local community or even feed the homeless. Be proactive in giving back to your community.
• Reconnect with family/friends- this is a big one that I had an issue with because with my relationships I was close guarded so I cared nothing with the other relationships in my life. Basically just leaving them to the waste side.
• Go on vacation with yourself- I am going to go to New York this summer and I believe I am going to go there by myself to let some steam off.

There is a lot of other things you can do but start to live life as if you are the one driving. Too many people fall victim to the innate nature of a relationship and they find themselves in an emotional rollercoaster. If you yourself do not know what you like how is the other person in your life going to know!!

Summer!! Customize it !!

Wanting more from life and wondering what you can do to achieve it? Wondering the same myself as I was out on another weekend with my buddies trying to understand why I do this every weekend. Contemplating this in the back of my mind I knew why and it was because my friends do it. Drinking until I get totally obliterated and not being able to remember the night is something I don’t think I want to continue doing. Trying to re-piece the night I sounded like I had a great time but why put my body through this, no more I say because it is not worth it. I cant stress the importance of how drinking can inhibit everything about your life as I have had to deal with it for a little bit but finally realized the importance of being a healthy individual. I now have the power to take back my life and make the proper decisions to have an amazing summer!!

We all dream about doing something more with our life and being able to do something different but when it comes to the decision we don’t do it. Self sabotage is what I have been preaching and that is what we all do but lets think about a healthier summer:

• Get Fit- Now this is hard but once you jump in its no holds barred. Having summer here gives me a sense of wanting to get out and do something active and also being in Colorado helps. Get out and do some running, hiking or mountain biking as well. Not only will this of course help your health but better with the opposite sex as well.
• Try something new- So what I have noticed is that people tend to be in habit. What you may want to try is to get fit but try a new way of doing it. I will start bouldering on Tuesday and extremely excited because it is something new and I am not wasting away at a patio drinking empty calories. Try to find something physically to do while it being also fun.
• New style- get rid of the 3 year old shorts and reward yourself with newer and of this decade style.
• Eat healthy and fresh- Summer always reminds me of fresh squeezed lemonade and grilling. Try to get a juicer and some fish, eating healthier also helps so many other things such as your mood. Fish is an amazing food because its protein to fat is outstanding and very lean for you but also the omega vitamins will help that burn you get turn into a tan senor!!
• Relax- Stop stressing, this leads to irrational decisions when it comes to your personal life as well. Feeling stressed can leave you tired and fatigued so when you had plans you wanted to do you may feel weary to do them.

I am thinking that maybe also trying to do some of these with the opposite sex. Try these things for this summer and even plan a trip other than party cities like places you really want to go!!

Positive Awareness!!

As I stand in the outskirts of the bar looking around I notice the cliques and people that are enjoying each other. As I look around I see beautiful women all over the place and the glances that they are giving me. I start to have a giant smile having loads of confidence I tend to relax a tad in my plaid shorts as I feel at ease with all of the surroundings. Even if the girls were not staring at me directly or just glancing for their attention I still felt as if the energy that I felt created a positive awareness!! This was giving me a natural high as I have not felt this in awhile; can we use this for our own advantage to have the confidence? That night I felt as if I was ten feet in the air even though I was only a tiny 5’ 7”.

So this is something I use in generality to create a positive outlook on myself. I believe that women in general use glances to create a self persona on what they think people think of them. I also use this towards my advantage because it creates awareness that I am good enough for the opposite sex. I don’t think, I know that I could be in basic knowledge that the women here I can have but just don’t have the balls to talk to them. I warm up by allowing the energy of sensuality envolope me as if I was reaping natural energy from a known source. It’s all in the head; you create a fear of the outcomes of what you do and the scenarios that can develop from it. One thing I know is the answer is no if you don't ask, taking chances is all you have.

Creating a positive awareness about yourself can almost guarantee a better night for you and possibly your friends. You see even though we don’t know this we give off energy non-verbally but by looks and glances, try to realize it next time someone gives you a look and remember how you feel. The thought patterns that you create is from another source which you can presume has to be energy. What I try to teach is to envelope a thought pattern to use in the process’s in which you can utilize as a tool instead of resorting to the alternate which is alcohol where you cannot have the ability to communicate with the opposite sex.

I am a Realist…

Thinking back at my life I never would have thought I would be here! In a place where I have so many decisions to make and it will not only affect me but everyone around me. I continue to drum the fingers on the table as I think of the words to come to mind and putting it down on paper. The words correlating with one another as if they were smeared on there like peanut butter, words looking more like pictures. I continue to get mental fatigue, running out of words and even breathe saying them over and over.

This is what my motivation has helped me accomplish!! and keep going

Allowing yourself to make decisions finally!!

What is capitalism in America? Being a realist I always have to wonder about what America is doing right that the rest of the world is doing wrong. I take a look at the McDonald commercials on T.V. broadcasting to my Child knowing that it would destroy him one day. The toy is intriguing to him as he taps me in the arm asking me to get him this great toy that cost them a penny to make but I will be paying 3.99 for it. Soon his diet will be the dollar cheeseburger in which costs twice as much as me making a meal for him at home. I shake my head at the one’s that allow this to be the staple of America, allowing TV to babysit the kids and fast food to be the nightly dinners. I take a look at our educational system as it teaches our children to try for a better “Job” instead of creating jobs. We look at our fascist country as the rich get richer and of course the poor get poorer.

Common Sense is a term used for people to use in the obvious; it is something we have all had to deal with having epiphanies of what is! The use of many terms in which facts is staring you in the face but you tend to erase what you know and replace with the norm. It may not be your fault but what society is telling you what the norm is. What you have to understand there is no norm but the differences between people is what connects us to one another. It is what intrigues us all to the brink of discovery but you my friend have to understand its corruptible capabilities.

Opening your eyes to what you already have seen but have not fixed the habit is something we all have to change. A behavioral characteristic is something we all develop through our time on this world, our mind is a sponge and adaptability is what keeps us alive. Learning from parents and kids at school is all you have come upon in what you know is your personality and you think you were born with it. The understanding of oneself is to know what you are capable of and changing yourself into what you want to be and what you want your children to model after. I have experienced many failures in my life and have openly admitted defeats but it was I to blame for all the wretched indiscretions that I have opposed on to others.

I look out into the world and I still find myself repeating the mistakes that I have failed to fix before but as I notice my behavioral characteristics I have found myself beating myself up again. I started the life change 2 years prior to this date and what I’ve learned is no one should accept who they are if they are not happy with themselves. We must thrive on what is reality and what I believe is that we as people must overcome our own obstacles in life and make better decisions. Logics over emotions can be a gateway to a better life and understanding this concept was something I had to learn the hard way. I was married before this and being married to women that continually used manipulation against me was something I hadn’t experienced and being Naive I went with it till one day I woke up and was not happy.

My journey has always started their and realized I had a lot of growing up to do not only for my son but for myself and allowing this to continue I needed to show him I was strong for him. I continually allow my self to grow mentally and physically to understanding the universe in my own sense and to allow others to direct me to answers I have not found. Remember when you are done learning is when you begin teaching. Allow yourself to experience all of what life has to offer! Using common sense to rule out bad decisions and the pressures of society can bring you good as long as you make the decision for a better you!

Product of your environment “subjective”

Sitting there with a six dollar Latte, thinking to myself while I was people watching “Why do people do what they do”? It makes no sense to me that your soul, your whole embodiment of what makes you who you are may be a little skewed. Looking around people has a habit they pick up when they are really little as toddlers and gradually it becomes a thought they start to grow from it. I was thinking about it, what could have caused the way I think? What triggered my thought process in which I try to utilize biological advances to use towards my struggles in being a man my son can look up to?

The art of openness “objective”

As I ordered a drink at my favorite “hole in the wall” I look at my friends all having a good time except for one. Josh is a good guy and he seems like he has good intent but he looks sad enough to be on a Hallmark card. A great guy indeed just got a raise at his accounting job and he has a great place where any bachelor would love to have. I was wondering why none of the women he was talking to would not give him the time of day. Pulling Josh over to my side of the room I tell him that I would like to be his “Wingman”. Overly excited he was happy that someone was going to help him out with the girls that were giving no responses.

Lose weight easier!!

It is three o’clock and I am wide awake. The only thing on was infomercials about how to lose weight and build muscle. The person talking, a tanned hyped version of Arnold yelling at me on ways to improve and lose the extra weight. Being a skeptic that I am I quickly turn to another channel but still another weight loss program ready to yell at me. Continually over and over again as I switch one thousand channels I get on a station playing a movie as I start to finally dose off. Dreaming of the infomercials because of the memory lag in my mind I start thinking on how people overspend on these expensive products that people soon pawn off to friends because they have no motivation for it.

Now I am not saying that this stuff works because it does as long as you have self discipline for it. Diet fads and other retrospective “Weight loss” products have some potential and even supportive reasoning behind it but what I am purposing is self motivation. When I was in High School I had a best friend who was overly obese but one of those funny ones, you know what I am talking about. He was a guy who was always downing himself because he also was short and not a lot of self esteem. At the beginning of my senior year he came back from the summer and I did not even recognize him. He lost over 50 pounds that summer and I didn’t understand how or why.

From this day I am still amazed on how his transformation gave me some inspiration to do things in my life. With all of the aspects in my life I have always lived through everyone else’s success and I love them for it. Determination is you telling yourself to get back up after falling a million and one time, and you keep doing that even though you are failing miserably. Expensive gyms, CD’s, personal trainer’s and Diet supplements are all there for your use but you have to remember nothing is ever easy as I learned throughout my years of failing, I just pick my self up again. These products work and they will always work, you just need some self discipline. You need to stop that self sabotage that I have experienced a thousand times and go for your goals.

There are many ways to lose the extra weight but you had to think logically and self discipline:

• Have a plan-you can’t just wing it when you are trying to discipline. Try to make your lunches and leave your money at home. You will have to plan what you will eat at what breaks.
• Create goals- per week write down your goals and what you want to accomplish. By the end of the week you should be one more step to being thinner.
• Use the products for the benefit- If you do try the DVD’s or even the diet pills “fat burners” you have to have the goal of accomplishing it with a diet because if you don’t you wont lose you actually may come out gaining weight.

In essence learn from the experts, if you are going to buy these products don’t just do it half a*& you need to create goals and stick to them!!

Social Objectiveness

Walking into the bar I was wondering around when I saw a gentleman with a group of people and was wondering why he was so important. He was not a movie star nor was he anyone I would think exceptionally interesting just looking at him. I had to know more about this so of course if I don’t know how it works I try to find out. So when he had to stop to go to the bar to get another drink I had to make a move to ask why he had almost a quarter of the bar in the palm of his hands.

I approached the middle aged man as If he was a teacher and I was an eager student to learn. “ Hey can I ask you a question” I said in a shaky voice. Smiling at me a with a weird grin he stated “sure”.  “I noticed that all of those people over there were giving all of their attention to you, do you know all of those people?” He grinned a pretty big grin and smiled stating “I am just interesting to talk to, I make myself open for opinions and I try to get to know everyone I can by remembering the name and something about them”. Okay as I walked away thinking maybe I can use this to my advantage.

Very simple when you think about it right? Basic thought process and simple playground theory on how to make friends but how do we use this to get the women to melt out of your hands? This was something I had to look into with knowing that attention is something that women like to have and give it to someone who has greater social value than her. See as much as I knew than was that you yourself is a very interesting person, everyone is very interesting and all you have to do is get past the first initial ice breaker. Lets look at this in depth just a little bit further and concentrate on the social value part.

Social Value is what Pick up artists use to attract women utilizing the value of their social skills to dominate the conversation having the object of their desire be submissive which will entitle the Pick up artists basically dominate her emotions as well. This is great and all but what if you can get multiple women attracted to you without even talking to them directly? How can we as men use each other to get all the women at the bar to be infused on trying to get our attention? I had an Idea but just had to test it out.

So after doing the research I decided to take it to the streets and try it at the local bar.  Sitting down at the bar where you had a clear view of everyone in the room I started in on the bartender. And I will review my notes with you to show you its all mathematical engineered to work as long as you do not get emotional.  Remember these points also when you do start to talk to the women you want as well.

• So placement is key in this game of cat and mouse, and we already went how you need to show Alpha male characterstics. Remember this process will evaluate your social value and aspects on making new friends and creating an attraction from women.

• So lets hit the basics on making people feel important.

1. know their name- simple but not so simple, how many times did you forget someone’s name. When they say their name, take some time to remember it and repeat it back to them, it actually shows a better social value.
2. Know something personal about them- this is a great thing to remember when wanting to make a bigger impression on the people you want to make your friends. It shows openness and wanting to be personal at the same time.
3. use body language- Don’t show a passive person this shows that you are not confident and it will not be good in the end and even lowering or even dismissing your social value.
4. Smile and ask open ended questions and really be involved in conversations, don’t act like it!!

• The bartender is the first piece of the puzzle. They are your friend but making them a better friend will take time and a little more dough if you want a good outcome. Tip very well and get to know their name and they will help you with what you came there for IE women.
• Make yourself the center of attention- now you know all of the players you need to know the game, be the center of attention of a group and make everyone involved, use dominant body language but also be open to everyone else. Be in the middle so everyone can talk to you and you can point them out when addressing them. If you have never been a mediator what you need to do is have a comment on everything someone says, use a real comment and always make it positive. Now you have successfully raised social value and your confidence.
• Use this to your advantage- look at the women around you after about 10 – 15 minutes, they should be fixated on you and your every move, don’t screw it up. Use this to your advantage, invite them into the conversation and if you don’t know if they are attracted look at the body language:

1. playfulness- playing with the hair or any part of clothing,
2. the look- yes of course if she stares then don’t be a wimp
3. knees and feet- look at them if any pointing in your direction and she glances to see then like I said don’t be a wimp
4. overly moving, exemplifying action- this is very key, moving slower, slurping down the drink slowly, flinging hair back, being fidgety, these are things to remember.

• Remembering your value- don’t put her on a pedestal when opening up with her, remember you just had a bunch of people eating out of your hands and to put her above you decreases your value fast. Use somewhat of a negative comment and intend to be funny like “ you have broad shoulders for a women” or “you have only one dimple when you smile, its odd but cute”

When doing this task it will increase your confidence not only with women but people in general. Having this type of quality you can use not only in just attracting women but your worth at your job or with your current friends. Remembering that this is and can be used very versatile will help you control your intentions and emotions as well.

Spring Fever!!

It is upon us the spring has hit and now all I see is dresses and skirts. Get excited over this because this is the time of love, pools, BBQ’s and patios. Well if you are not excited that means you are not truly ready and need a little bit of encouragement. Maybe you need to adjust your look, work out, or change your wardrobe. Let’s look at this in perspective if you have not been excited about the spring that means you truly have not enjoyed the true feeling of warmer weather as a single male dude on the hunt for the ultimate feeling. With low self esteem and decreasing male libido means only one thing: you need to change up your game and experience.

I love spring because of the women and the more things you can do. Skin and warm weather is just exciting to me but let’s look at a couple of things to do if your game is not cutting it:

• Weight- well now that the winter is done that means you can lose the extra five to ten pounds you put on in hibernation.
• Run for at least 30-45 minutes every other day
• Change up your diet to have high protein and low carbohydrates; also you do need to do some calorie counting. Try this link http://health.drgily.com/basal-metabolic-rate-calculator.php and remember that the more calories you burn and the less intake = weight loss
• Muscle resistance is always my favorite but always use your brain on this one. You need to have a plan on what you do and try not to overwork your muscles. EX:  5 minute warm up, 30 minute muscle group (chest, back, shoulders, or legs) 15 minutes secondary muscles (Triceps, Biceps, or core) then do 10-15 minutes if cardio. Take it from this guy http://fitnesslk.blogspot.com/
• Resist temptations-remember that food is a necessity not a privilege. What this means is that you don’t have to eat at McDonald’s so think healthy.
• Change up wardrobe- This is very essential if you are still wearing the same gear from winter. You will need to put away the sweaters and break out the shorts and plaid shoes. T-shirts that will accentuate the newly developed muscles, perhaps a v-neck.
• Get some color- I am not saying go to the tanning bed every day but you need to maybe go outside and get the skin a little refreshed with the UV rays that also give out Vitamin- D. Remember to much of something is bad for you and most things are good in moderation.
• Enjoy the outdoors- get outside and do something like hiking, rock climbing or something that will get your blood pumping.
• Enjoy a patio- there is nothing better than just sitting outside on your own, a buddies or a bar patio but enjoy it because it feels so good to enjoy some suds in warm weather.
• Be single- now this is only for the single dudes but enjoy the women in your life and if you don’t have some get some. Read my other blogs on how to meet women and just get out there because I love the skin and you should to.

So now that we have discussed what to do for the spring we need to boldly go where you have not done before. No holding back and be strong on your values, don’t party too hard and enjoy other things besides just the bar and booze. Enjoy life as it brings fullness and new things to your life.

Words of encouragement

Think about what you have done in your life!! Think about all the things you want to accomplish and have not!! How does the taste saturate in you mouth? Never good when you can think of things that you have yet not accomplished and will not. These are the things we have in our subconscious that keep us awake at night. These regrets and promises we made to ourselves are the only thing we think about when life does not go our way!! Life takes concentration people. Life is a concurrent of what is expected of us and how we develop into the people we are today.

Are you who you thought you would become? In most cases probably not, things got in the way or things just did not work out. Most people have this thought process and it is incorrect to a standard of people who always fought to better themselves. We are talking the top dogs people, the men and women we see in the movies and on TV. These people have known that they can better themselves and improved themselves daily. We need to concentrate and focus on what we want out of life not what we are giving to it. If you have ever heard of, “you have to love yourself before you can love someone else” use that to insure the consistence of what you want out of life.

Money, Women, Sex (I love it)

So lately I have been just thinking about it because the spring is upon us and I can’t get it out of my mind. What am I going to do for the summer because I have an Itch I will always scratch it. You may call me vain or addicted to myself but I don’t care because I don’t spend 5 days 2 hours a day to look like a slob. I love the summer for three things: Women, Money, partying. That is why I am so driven but why am I this way? I believe everyone has this feeling and would love to have fun at it. I say scratch it fella’s, love being you and let everyone know it.

Time for a new wardrobe

Unfortunately I have grown in size from last year so now I need larger shirts (which are good and bad because I am bigger but it hurts the pocket book somewhat). I think the V-neck is going to be shirt of choice even though the Polo’s show off your tone, the v-neck is something that will show off your neck and traps. I am also going to try to find what is called Boat shoes (recently told by a girl I hooked up with) I have one pair but I like the attention enough I may buy more with nice shorts.

Summer ABS

I have not had Abs to show off but this year I don’t think the shirt is going to stay on. If you did not notice I love the attention from this and I don’t think the women mind it neither. I have shredded about 6 pounds of fat and wanting to do about 4 more before I go to Vegas and yes I will have pictures for all of you. I think this is going to be an Epic year for me.

Getting money for teaching men to get women

Started to show other men about the power of confidence and the key ingredients to do it right which of course helps the pocket book a little bit but in turn I am helping men better themselves. I mean what is better than helping other men achieving goals and getting paid to do so. I love my life but I do need to state it was hard for me to reach this as well. It was a hard transition but I do appreciate all the people that have helped me.

In turn I may be a little Vain and so what I love to better myself everyday and that is why I teach it. Bettering yourself everyday is something you have to do to make yourself better as a person and to make your life better as well.

Setting Goals for Better Mental Health

The time it takes for us to realize that we have an issue is about less than a second. The time it takes is to correct this issue can take a lifetime, why is that? I was sitting in my room knowing I have an issue but continuing to do the same thing over and over as if I was listening to the same song over and over again. Waking up I tell my self that this will be the day when I change, this will be the day I start off right. Self sabotaging seems to be the modern realization of someone’s ego. I tend to stay on the same page without wanting to turn the page with fear of it. I tend to want to resort back to the same things I am accustomed to and can’t get to the part I want to be and without it I feel alone and depressed. With the same people I seem to go out with, they seem to be friendly but in the end I am betrayed by their desires of drinking and loose women. Goals I set every start of the week seems to be dwindled by the end when my urge to use the bottle to solve my social problems.

Being Attractive can only go so far when seducing women!

She was sitting there as beautiful as possible and glances up to see what attention she was getting. She looks right at you and gives smile as if she was waiting for you the whole time but you freeze and your palms get sweaty. The nervousness gets to you as if you were paralyzed from the brain down, not knowing you walk away and leave her wondering why you could not talk to her.

A symmetry boggles over a snag.

Nice guys can finish first!

So lately I have been reading a lot of blogs that have been talking about how nice guys finish last! This is not true because I believe I am a nice guy but I am usually the guy who the women are attracted to! Now I am not saying that the bad boy image is something you have to have to get the women but let’s take a look at why it works. We all have a persona on the mind and how we think but we need to think differently to get those women we want!

Losing weight is simple!

So I was going to the gym the other day and it dawned on me while I was reading an article. People want a quick fix for everything right?! The magical cure for losing weight is taking pills and weighting for results or if you have enough money you can do a tummy tuck or Lipo. I was sitting here wondering why I was in the gym two hours a day trying to perfect myself when there are magical drugs out there to keep everyone skinny. So I wondered about the results and as I was of course "googling" I found many websites frowning on the effects of these diet pills. Reading further into them I was really concerned about people spending money on things that really have no effect.

Getting Attention from Women

So I have written so much about attracting women and the seduction of them but what about attention from them. There is a primal instinct of everyone to get attention from another person. Either through friends or from of course the opposite sex but why do we need this in our life? How are we going to get more of this stuff? How are you going to get attention from the one you like?

Losing weight takes concentration!

Being healthy is a lifestyle change that everyone wishes for and few actually achieve. Being healthy is a way of life for many people who want to better themselves as they become older and has depletion of many hormones that sustain their life. Many people have not achieved overall satisfaction in being healthy even the ones who practice being healthy. Why is this? How can we overcome our desire to eat junk food and not exercise? There is a simple way to achieve this by simply changing the mindset of one:

Creating a well balanced life!

So I have had difficulty with this lately. From going out with my friends and trying to get work and school done I have been trying to develop a way to balance everything out. Have you ever wanted to create a habit that is good for you and beneficial with your needs? I sure want that so I am going to try these small steps for all of my life goals:

These are the goals I am going to start tonight:

Diet/saving money– So many people have issues with this but packing a lunch. Shopping for your own groceries can save you a lot of money. So what I will be doing is packing my lunch and forgetting my credit/ Debit card at home. This will make me not want to go across the street to the local gas station and pick up a Twinkie (even if they are so good). Plus if you pack it with the right stuff you will be healthier as well!

Staying organized- I have an issue with this because I am so sprawled out. I have a difficulty when it comes to cleaning and staying cleaned. So to combat that I will have 30 minutes dedicated to organizing and laundry every day so I should be good for the week.

Fitness- Running to the gym sounds like no fun but has so many benefits:

• Of course of the obvious Cardio!
• If you run to the gym you are more prone to be proactive at the gym because you are already there.
• It is a great warm up then you stretch.

Making better decisions – I have not made the best decisions recently. I have been going out on the spur of the moment and not thinking about getting home after making it to the bar or club. I am going to make one day a week the party day and plan it two to three days in advance. This will combat the plan coming back and also it will make me more prone to talk to women so later I don’t have to worry about being lazy when it comes to actually participating in a meaningful conversation.

I am hoping that these works, I guess sometimes you have to take away the things you love to the goals you want. Next time I will continue these goals and hopefully I will be better for it!

Seducing women without even talking to them

So everyone thinks that the only way to get a woman is approach and conversation. That is so off base and it is not even funny! Many people have this misconception that it is all in the conversation. Women will know almost everything about you before you even open your mouth. Body language is a huge part of who you are in terms of how you carry yourself. Meaning it is advertising to everyone else on who you are. But how would you be able to use your body language to promote a good vibe for the opposite sex?

Getting as Many Beautiful and as Sexy Women Possible- Intro

Recently I have decided to put away all things that deal with popular subjects and just go with just basic fun! See when you read this, what do you get out of it? This is a serious subject for some people because they are really trying to meet women. The thing is meeting women should be fun and exciting. I met tons of women that just enticed me; Beautiful sexy women that would just make you drool are very interesting. Meeting beautiful women and making them want you is all about the game. If you are serious about dating one woman this is not the article you should read. Try my other ones because they are more beneficial for a serious dater.

Gurus will show you technique is the way to go. Others will tell you that you have to use certain types of styles but what about just going all balls out. Dig up your balls that have been placed in the glass jar outback and follow me. This article will demonstrate that all of these techniques work better if you just have fun with them.

Confidence is all you need to be a real ladies man but you need to grab the bull by the horns. You have one life to live and if you cant have fun with it!

Flirting- of course flirting works but make it fun by making funny faces then sexy faces!

Neg’s- This will make her smile after you have truly mastered this technique!

Cocky funny- This is so fun just to be the cocky confident guy that will make her smile!

There are so many different ways of approaching women but you have to approach them. I have one thing to say to all of these techniques is that you have to build confidence. I have been teaching men how to build confidence through many different aspects of life and one thing that they all say is it has changed their whole look on life. So look at these techniques and think about what courage really means!

Losing Weight Wthout Going to the Gym

So for the New Year you are trying to lose some weight like everyone else. You think about it but still do not want to go to the gym. We need to think of another way right?

There are things you can do to lower your weight without going to the gym. Here are tips on how to do so:

The only way to seduce "Beautiful Women"

So now I have been reading a lot of articles about attracting and seducing woman and I have one thing to say. Lame! Why you ask? Well I am going to let you in on a little secret. This secret will be the ultimate answer to everyone’s questions. Now you are asking yourself “why would someone give me this”?  The question you should be asking is what is this incredible tip? What is the difference between this from every other Guru’s Technique? Well I will give you a little hint:

Be a better man in 2011: beautiful woman and talking to them

New Years resolution’s never go out of style so why not set a new one. Having to set one is a lot harder than one thinks and even harder to keep it. Wanting to increase the woman you meet is a hefty goal to set especially if you don’t talk to them. Being good at something means you need to practice. In the end of setting this goal you should get more numbers, more women and an increasing amount of popularity LOL!

Tips on being able to talk to woman

#1- Practice makes perfect- now I am not saying you have to sprint right out of the blocks you can set a goal like start with talking to one woman you don’t know daily. When you feel more confident, you increase the number of woman per week.

#2- do not get into a routine- Even though you have a mindset in talking to more women that does not mean you can be complacent with it. The practice behind this is to treat it like a muscle, each time you lift you build muscle. When you talk to women, try to talk at an increasing amount of time you talk and what things you talk about.

3#-failure only teaches success- this is true with everything! Everything! You will fail and we call this rejection. You need to learn how it feels and not be disappointed from it. You will be rejected and not because it is you. It could be just not her day or just not wanting to talk. So don’t take it to heart!

In summary, you make this goal of wanting more women in your life and better quality of women you need to get out there. Practice what you want to be better at but don’t be afraid of failure. Remember even practicing riding your bike you fall and get scraps but those scraps will keep you from falling again!

Be a better man 2011: Fitness “The basics” so you don’t look like a dummy

So you have decided to take the plunge with the New Year and lose that tire. Well if you have and never been in a gym do I have the cure all for you!  Some people think they can just step inside with an IPod and a dream. That is wrong to think and even worse if you are clueless about weight training and Cardio. So here are some things to remember and never forget! EVER!

Sex, Drugs and Rock n’ Roll

You know you like this title because everyone likes this saying. “Sex, drugs and rock n’ roll,” is a mantra that introduces everyone to the idea to being a part of the “In Crowd”. The “in crowd” you ask?  The “in crowd” that every one of us at some point has stood by and watched the “in crowd” at their local bar along with the best girls, the best parties, and the best after parties.  Now just admit it, you’ve been pondering what it would be like to live this lifestyle even before I began writing this article haven’t you?

 

Attracting woman "the basics" to a better sex life!! Male Enhancement #2

So we have another new year to look forward to!! You set high goals for yourself and hopefully you can achieve them. If one of them has to do with meeting and attracting woman than your in luck. There are millions of ways to meet and seduce woman but no one tells you the starting point. In track a sprinter would not go without starting blocks so why should you go without your tools. Use these tips for building self-esteem and confidence with woman.

Male Enhancement: Tips on reinventing you for the new year!! -Weight Loss-

So everyone sets their new years resolution and every year it starts out good then it fizzles out. So this year using small changes for big results would be better if you set goals that are achievable and maneuverable. The four biggest resolutions are the easiest to achieve, you just need to start out slow and hit goal periods throughout the year so by years end it has been resolved.

So to start down the list and to use a little common sense to achieve the first steps to an amazing year:

Weight loss: